What Makes my Bullsh*t Meter Go Off?

Every time I hear or read a message with an exact formula for success my bs meter goes off.

Does anyone else feel like this?

My fave thing about working with my beautiful clients is helping them find their way. Their tools. Their formula. The ones that honor who they are. Where they are. Where they’ve been. And where they’re going. The formula that realistically fits in their life. And clicks based on how they already operate, feel and think. This is the work that lights me up like crazy bc it lights my clients up. This is how I fluff wings.

How many examples do you have of working someone else’s exact formula to success that worked for them and found lasting, sustainable, aligned and authentic shifts that lit you up?

It has to be your way.

Someone else’s way may work for a season, but not for the long haul. Otherwise, you find yourself misaligning your pieces to fit in someone else’s puzzle... over and over. Sure you may see results, but it will feel incomplete.

Build trust with yourself, by finding yours ways in all of it. Be inspired by others, adopt some of their pieces if it vibrates as truth to you too, read and listen and work with others. But keep coming back to your core and do alignment checks, because the exact formula... the full and complete picture... that’s unique to you.

Sending love and and believing in you fully!!!

(Stay tuned for part 2 about how harmful this really is. Bc guess what happens when someone else’s formula doesn’t work for you? And it won’t. It makes you feel like a failure. It’s a toxic cycle.)