We All Get it Wrong

I have definitely gotten it wrong many times recently. Learning from my mistakes. Doing it blindly the way I think people want me to act... is never 👏going 👏to 👏work 👏for me. It’s better to get it wrong, coming from a place of authenticity, than continuing to act in the way I think I’m supposed to. Acting from a place of harshness and judgment is not sitting well with me. It’s not the me I choose to be. Calling people out is not me. Calling people in though, that’s a reframe I can live with. Recognizing my judgment, being gentle with others, thoughtful with what I say and how I say it feels aligned. The shame narrative is something I’ve been working to breakdown for years and I’m remembering the importance of that work now. Moving through the lense of JUDGE. Working to recognize myself for judging, but let go of the shame narrative around it. Remembering it’s not my job to dictate how others share, process, show or don’t show support. I can invite them in. I can share where I am. I can share what others are doing. I can share and embrace my anger and my fire, without using it as a weapon. Letting my heart lead, getting my brain on board. Coming back to center.